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Classroom regulation and accommodations to prevent aggression

by Laura Petix
Sep 29, 2025
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Let’s jump right back into Jacob’s story.
[Start at part 1 here, or catch up on part 2 here]

Jacob’s parents were eager to try anything that might decrease his aggressive behaviors at his co-op preschool. Based on what we knew (that he seeks out proprioceptive input and dislikes imposed touch from peers), these are the starting accommodations we discussed:

 

  • Structured heavy work (as a “teacher helper”):
    • Digging weeds or pushing a wheelbarrow with gardening tools
    • Returning tricycles or play cars by pushing them back to their parking spot
    • Helping one of the dads rebuild part of the fence

 

  • Support during rug time:
    • Offer him a cube chair for posture support, with a wiggle cushion on the floor for his feet to move
      *This is an AI generated photo to illustrate what this could look like: 

  • Choice before outside play: Instead of “go play,” give him two options for structure, like:“Hey Jacob, do you want to kick the soccer ball around or do some climbing?”
  • Transition jobs: Provide a simple job when it’s time to go back inside, such as:
    • “Jacob, can you carry this inside and put it on my desk?”
    • “Can you push the lunch cart back to the shed?”
    • “Here’s a squirt bottle—can you give each bush 3 squirts before walking in?”

  • Facilitated one-on-one play: Pair him with one peer at a time for activities that include proprioception but aren’t too competitive or overstimulating, like:
    • Riding the see-saw
    • Working together to push/pull a heavy container
    • Taking turns pushing each other in the play car

 

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