The Sensory Code by The OT Butterfly
Learn how to decode behavior using a nervous system lens and how to incorporate sensory strategies into your daily life by these real life case study examples.
Meeting a sensory seeker’s needs at home
We’ve talked about Jacob’s behaviors at school and some classroom supports, but his parents were just as desperate for ideas to make home life a little less chaotic. They shared these challenges:
Struggles to get out the door on time in the mornings
Big meltdowns when told “no” (like...
by Laura Petix —
Oct 06, 2025
after school
extra curricular
heavy work
Classroom regulation and accommodations to prevent aggression
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Let’s jump right back into Jacob’s story.[Start at part 1 here, or catch up on part 2 here]
Jacob’s parents were eager to try anything that might decrease his aggressive behaviors at his co-op preschool. Based on what we knew (that he seeks...
by Laura Petix —
Sep 29, 2025
aggression
classroom
heavy work
meltdowns
mixed thresholds
repair
social skills
tactile sensitivity
Sensitive to touch, but rough in play
Welcome to part 2 of Jacob’s story, you can check out part 1 [here].
Jacob’s parents were doing their best to keep up with his big sensory cup and constant need for movement, but there also seemed to be big emotions tied up in that cup.
While some kids mask at school and save their meltd...
by Laura Petix —
Sep 22, 2025
aggression
classroom
meltdowns
mixed thresholds
social skills
tactile sensitivity
Meet Jacob: A fearless, adventurous preschooler with feelings bigger than his sensory cup.
At the fresh age of 3, Jacob already knew exactly what he wanted out of each day: get as muddy as possible, jump from the tallest tree he could find, be the loudest kid in the room aaannnndddd keep his parents and teachers on their toes—because life would be boring otherwise, right?
Sensor...
by Laura Petix —
Sep 15, 2025
aggression
big feelings
hitting
meltdowns
preschool
sensory seeking
Connecting The Dots: Sensory and Fine Motor Development
Toward the end of my work with Henry and his family, his mom brought up one last piece of the puzzle: fine motor challenges.
This wasn’t their top concern; she understood that fine motor skills take time to develop. But she wanted to know if there were games or activities they could try to hel...
by Laura Petix —
Sep 08, 2025
fine motor
handwriting
motor planning
proprioception
tactile processing
Why transitioning feels like herding sheep (and what helps)
Have you ever counted how many transitions there are in a day for a kindergartener? I counted nearly two dozen- and that's conservative, excluding all the transitions within the school day.
Common morning transitions:
Getting out of bed
Going to the bathroom
Getting dressed
Going to...
by Laura Petix —
Sep 01, 2025
bedtime routine
proprioception
sensory strategies
sleep support
transitions
Neurons that fire together, wire together
Let’s learn more about Henry.
If you missed his intro, click here to read it. Henry is a cuddly, energetic 5-year-old with a mixed bag of differing sensory needs that show up most around bedtime, transitions, and anything involving water.
Today, we’ll zoom in on his sensitivity and avoidance...
by Laura Petix —
Aug 25, 2025
bathtime
fight or flight
meltdowns
sympathetic
tactile
Meet Henry: A 5 year old who struggles settling down for bed, hates water, loves cuddles, and struggles to hold a pencil.
I worked with Henry and his parents over a series of 4 calls. The main goal of our work together was to create a set of accommodations and sensory strategies that would help them all have smoother evenings and weekends, which were the times when Henry seemed to be the most dysregulated.
He...
by Laura Petix —
Aug 18, 2025
dysregulation
fine motor
showers
sleep
transitions
washing hands
To travel or not to travel?
We’re in the final part of Mina’s story and today we’re talking about expecting, managing and supporting dysregulation when traveling.
Whether it’s something as small as going to the aquarium for the day or taking a trip to visit grandparents in another state—traveling and going to fun place...
by Laura Petix —
Aug 11, 2025
accommodations
meltdowns
occupational therapy
routine
travel
The subtle clue that a meltdown is coming
If you’re just joining us, here’s a mini review of Mina, our case study for this month.
Mina is 3 years old and does great when she’s in control and everything in her environment and days are scheduled and run exactly how she likes it. Easy peasy, right? 😅
Mina’s parents wanted help making...
by Laura Petix —
Aug 04, 2025
aggression
behavior
coregulation
dysregulation
meltdowns
morning meltdowns
Morning Meltdowns & Clothing Battles
Today we’re going to talk about morning routines in part 2 of Mina’s story.
[Click here to go back and catch up on part 1]
Mina’s mornings often start with frustration, sensory overwhelm, and a pile of clothes that didn’t feel “perfect,” a scene that I am all too familiar with.
For Mina’s...
by Laura Petix —
Jul 28, 2025
clothing sensitivity
morning meltdowns
sensory routines
tactile sensitivity
transitions
Meet Mina: A Bright, Determined 3-Year-Old Who Loves Her Routines and Knows Exactly How She Wants Her Socks
When Mina’s parents first reached out to me, they weren’t in crisis mode, but they were definitely carrying the weight of months (maybe years) of trying to “figure it out” on their own. I know firsthand how jolting it can feel when you look up one day and realize you’ve been in survival mode f...
by Laura Petix —
Jul 21, 2025
meltdowns
nervous system regulation
rigidity
routines
transitions
travel
The Sensory Code by The OT Butterfly